I try not to play the hypocrite. I will commend you when you are on the right track and condemn you when you do wrongs. Moreover I don't wait until something bad happens to me, before I show sympathy for other people's loss or downfall.
I've come to realise that human beings are essentially parochial, only caring about themselves and their circles of friends. They have no concern for the commonalities that bond every one of us in a society that is growingly under siege.