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“The idea that sex is something a woman gives a man, and she loses something when she does that, which again for me is nonsense. I want us to raise girls differently where boys and girls start to see sexuality as something that they own, rather than something that a boy takes from a girl.”

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Wednesday, September 25, 2013

The Spirit of Kindness can change our Nation

II was thinking about how we would have a better Jamaica if people were a bit kinder. We could win the hearts of many people if we treated people with empathy instead of validating them based on how gratifying they look. We are continuing a vicious cycle inadvertently that is destroying our world. 

It takes nothing out of you to share why little you have and help out others but then when you help people they somehow think it is an excuse to "live pon you like a parasite". They don't understand that your kindness is out of consideration for their well being and not a declaration that you have commodities in abundance to give away.

What kind of world are we living in when people think that kindness should be interpreted as wealth. I've been broke and still help people out because I am a compassionate human being. I remembered during my last studies how hunger felt and I know that it is not any feeling that any human being should have to endure. I also see my humanity within every other human being and therefore believe that anything that happens to any one individual on this planet can happen to me because this place is a small place and we are all not so much different from one another. 

I was thinking and this is just a conjecture that what if corporate Jamaica could give entrepreneurial funding to brilliant graduates. I have some great business ideas but I believe corporate Jamaica is not ready for my initiatives. They like my government are shackled to the orthodox business and political practices. 

Extortion is a big black market business in Jamaica. What if business people simply contributed to communities using charities maybe, just maybe they won't be targeted by extortionist. Ghetto people claim rich people have it easy, treat them slaves in their employs and hoard all the money for them and them friends. What if we could cancel out that perspective? The same boy who you fired and called a thief may well become a criminal with a vendetta against you. 

People treat people like money and currencies. You are tested with respect if people think you have money. Anybody who lives near scammers can tell you that scammers only respect other scammers. Why? Because scamming equals money. A smart gentleman once said that "even if you pass and tell them manning, you coming lie fart them don't even look at you because you are not a scammer" . We have a society that put possession of money over everything else. Morals, values and virtues go through the door, if your pocket is heavy. People only "rate"people who look like them have money. 

There are people who go to hospital, child's home and prisons, issue goods and comforts to the less fortunate in our society without looking for any returns. They have assured me that they are still some good people in this world. 

I met some great people in my life including Owen Salmon and Francesca Tisot   who are people who have invested in me both emotionally and financially. They believe in my dreams. They are two good people that I have met in this world. We do not honor good people enough, instead we "hype" the wrong people and endorsed detrimental elements. 

Do good and good will follow you? 

Things work too perfect in nature for you to doubt the effect that nature has on our lives. Everything in this world recycled, so why do we feel that our deeds won't be circulated back to us? 

I am kind to people because I think that god will have mercy on me and bestow upon my grandchildren natures recompensation of good will. I understand that I won't always be here for my children. I do not know what god had planned for their lives or even mine. But I believe that If I leave good imprints on the sand then my child's journey through life will be less arduous. 



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