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Thursday, May 9, 2013

Badmind a the wussest Disease in Jamaica

Recently i have discovered that many Jamaicans love it when you come to their door step come beg them something fi nyam so that they can feel superior to you. If a quarrel should arise between, you and them, then they will have weapons in their artillery to hurl at you. Imagine the same person that you have been hogwashing your mouth on for years, all of a sudden becomes wealthy, we would assume that these people would be happy for us. No they are not. Because they can no longer programme you and get you to do what they want you to do. Then their imaginations begin to run wild. They start to say how you a get hype...I would like to think that i have every right to celebrate my successes and where i am coming from. IF MY SUCCESS arouses negative feelings in another person then he has some serious social and self esteem issues that has absolutely nothing to do with me. If you are feeling slighted, do not come quarrel with me, trying to insinuate that i should reduce my victory dance so that you can feel better in your mediocre life. I have waited too long for this to not feel good and express my happiness when i achieve. I remember the first time i was exposed to badmind, i came second in my class at Manning and my step mother accosted me and told me to go on the roof top and get a mike and shout it out to the world. The look on her face told me that she was anything but happy for my academical feat. I cried and as a teenager i realized that there were people like my step mother in this world. The older i got, the more of these people i met. Everyone is alloted the same amount of time each day. You are responsible for what you do with your time. You cannot expect to be paid for work that you did not do. You also should not begrudge or envy people who made sacrifices and worked hard while you were frolicking not to celebrate their successes. Remember you cannot want something that you have never worked hard for. Bad mind is the worst disease. The very thing that a man bad mind one for is the very things he wants for himself. Put himself in your position, he would act worst than you are. Just examine people who probably wear a few good clothes and dot have much else. Bottom, Feeders, Hyping. Imagine if they build a house or had a car. No it is OK for them to hype because they are superior to you (in their mind) and hence you should accept life the way they say it is. The bad mind smady do not want to work hard, they think they should have wealth and fame by divine nepotism. They think that the more successful people they tear down or eliminate, the better they will feel about themselves. When they drag you down or kill you, they have not achieved anything much, but in their minds it is a lot, they get satisfaction. They cannot get your car, house, money but they get satisfaction because they have eradicated that which relegates them to their true status instead of the grandiose fake self worth they have in their mind. Who created these type of people? Their bad mind mothers who are jealous of others successes. Bad-mind parents often create and encourage these nuisances. They have not taught their children any better but to watch other people's life, compare themselves to them and bash, demean, belittle them so that they can feel good about themselves. Narcissism begets narcissism. They have not encouraged their children to work hard, anything that anyone has, you can get it too and that they should seize their opportunity.Try to do the best you can to achieve your goals so that you will not have time to preee other peoples accomplishment. You will not feel "small" around successful people but feel as if you belong because you like them did your hard work. They cannot help who they are so it is best to avoid them, let them bask in their self mad importance. Bad mind man and gyal will forever sit at the park watching the jaguars and benz roll by because that's all them good for. What do you do with Bad Mind people? Ignore them, Stay Far from them, DO NOT put them on your mind or else you will be eternally bitter and Angry. Before long, you will morph into them,. becoming more corrupt than they are. They want to proselytize you into thinking you are really inferior and as soon as you begin to concentrate on the stench of their hatred, you lose sight of your goals. You begin to pay attention to these frightful inconsequential obstacles who needs all the attention they can get to be considered significant.