“The idea that sex is something a woman gives a man, and she loses something when she does that, which again for me is nonsense. I want us to raise girls differently where boys and girls start to see sexuality as something that they own, rather than something that a boy takes from a girl.”
— Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
Thursday, April 3, 2014
Ten Signs the Jamaican man you dating is not as Single as he Claims he is
1. You cannot call him certain time a night.
2. You need an appointment to see him. You cannot just show up at his workplace or Home.
3. You do not know where he lives and probably have never met him anywhere where he frequents.
4. You do not know his friends or have never met any of his immeadiate family. His entire life is a mystery to you.
5. He cannot take you to sleep at his house because he lives with his parents.
6. He cannot sleep with you because he does not like to sleep elsehwere other than in his bed and he has to wake up early and get to work.
7. Never available for special holidays like christmas and valentines. Birthday's worst. He leaves the presents you buy him at your house because he cannot possible take them home.
8. Insist that you do not get pregnant despite telling you that he loves you and want to start a family with.
9. Has no problem with you having other sexual relations. He is not jealous of your new boy toy only insist that you save a slot for him. He is either not interested or is already committed.
10. He disappears for days at length. No phone call. No contact. Then reappears and spends weekend then vanishes against.