Closet Gay Men in Jamaica: What do women know about them?

I tend not to dwell too much on the topic of homosexuality in Jamaica as it is often met with caustic commentary from the gay community locally and abroad.

A recent set of rowdy gays were evicted from a premises in Kingston and rumours had it that at nights, numerous high end vehicles were parked in the yard obviously a prostitution base for many well off closet homosexuals. This statement was backed up by a conversation a psychologist friend of mine and i had the other day of how some of her upper echelon clients were distraught and beyond repair after their doctors found fecallia in their vaginas suggesting that their husbands were engaging in anal sex. I have met men who were interested in having anal sex. I have no problem with what a person chooses to do in their bedroom with their body, just do not put certain things to me. I replied politely that my "batty only have one route...nothing no go in, everything haffi come out" . I was not interested plain and simply but when a man dates a woman as a front and is secretly sleeping with men then that’s a whole other ball game.

I know society places pressure on homosexual men to conform to traditional forms of relationships and some are afraid to even confess to their families and friends of their sexual preferences. Our society has been particularly unkind to people who refuse to conform to our conventional way of thinking. I personally have nothing against gay men and the few i've met, are great individuals under it all.

What I would prefer is if these bisexuals would use a condom when they go out and sleep with their men. It is quite unfair for your woman or wife to find out that you are sticking it in a behind by way of a doctor. Do you understand how humiliating that can be

Some women probably already suspect it. I met a gay once who was unconventionally obsessed with my disproportionately large behind. He might not have been gay but he is definitely hetero-anal. A woman once said that if she discovered that a man she loved was gay it would not be an issue for her. She would be confident that he will never look at another woman. I do not know which woman would be confident being cheated on with another man...different strokes for different folks.