Dealing with your Jamaican IN laws

So i have had many bouts with the dreaded in laws who for most part often think that their son/ daughter is too good for you. You are in their estimation undeserving of their important familial ties and incredible genes for your offspring. Their superiority only exist in their little niche community and the bearings being that you are not related to them hence you are inferior to them. Sounds incestuous doesn’t it? i have asked my self and i have met many women who think their female in laws want to date their kins. Why do our female in laws give us women such a hard time? Are they jealous of us as women are known to be rather competitive? Are they jealous of their male relative, thinking due to his good qualities that he should be with them and not you; and they become embittered at the thought that they can never be with him and such set out to sabotage your relationship? Yes sabotage your relationship so that you become exhausted by the constant put downs, criticisms and leery looks that you abandon your love, giving him back to them? Are your in laws more appreciative of past girlfriend or present partners with less redeeming qualities yet inspite of what you do, you are never meted any measure of recognition, respect or appreciation? Do you feel as if it is impossible to get along with your in laws that you will never be good enough for them. Stop, they don’t have to like you since you are not in a relationship with them. Just pretend they are the family members we cant stand but cant completely turn our backs because they are still family. And don’t feel bad or upset if your man does not understand your concerns, they are his family and he couldn’t possible know how a stranger feels around them. As a matter a fact, he doesn’t know about the subtle hints his female family members gives his spouse because he is guy and they do not show him that side of them. They are nice to him, not you. Look at the alacrity with which members of your family or other outsiders (brother in law’s wife) concur with you when you snuff about your in laws warped eccentricities and lofty ideals. http://s3.amazonaws.com/readers/2013/01/25/imagesqtbnand9gcr9lep81fxtjnraeftjp1yht6fm4x22zkt3ynn1ol3hwaqc7_1. What enrages most women is how their Mans female relatives are quick to degrade them and when place on the attraction continuum, they fall short by a huge avalanche. Those family members who say you aren’t a good girl yet are promiscuous, non progressive, baby boomers. Now which woman would not be pissed at a lesser woman than her lambasting her character. Most times its just classic sour grapes syndrome. Your female in laws like most women who life has dealt them a bad hand are jealous. Age old symptom of women competition for male attention. They are afraid that just as how your man finds you extraordinary then their men might actually like you too which their men will deny with vehemence. They do not like women like us who raise the bar for them, we show men what is out their to behold and how much they are short selling themselves when they settle for them. They only like our good virtues when it is to their benefit. If your in laws realise that you have a mind of your own and they cant control you, rest assure that they will give you hell. They believe that you should have to earn their affection and you do not since the only ones love that is important is that of the man you are with. You maybe hrut by what they express but its irrelevant to your relationship as long as you love him. Read more: http://purpleslinky.com/humor/dealing-with-your-jamaican-female-in-laws/#ixzz2O70hibRY

Jamaican Tamarind Next big Weight loss Supplement

Doctor Oz referred to Tamarind as the Holy Grail of Weight loss supplement and i recently found out why. I have managed to convinced a few importers to sell this product on the international market as a weight loss supplement and its going very well. Here is why... I have loved Tamarind ever since i was a child, i like to eat it with drinking soda, salt and sugar. It is an enjoyable candy among Jamaica’s young children. But i discovered a few weeks ago in this new and exciting Tamarind season that it represses my appetite and i feel fuller longer so i decided to research this theory and articles on line have confirmed my suspicion that Tamarind does actually aid weight loss. Other than being grounded as spice and rolled with sugar and rum to make a delectable confection for children, the Tamarind also known as Garcinia Cambogia is actually a weight loss breakthrough waiting to be discovered and its being wasted in my backyard. What is behind this fruit, the Hydroxycitric Acid that is derived from it and is crucial in destroying the bodies fat storing mechanism. It acts as a blocker, preventing the body from storing lipids and breaking down glycerin It assists women in controlling the level of cortisol in their blood hence preventing weight gain especially in the waistline. Cortisol leads to fat being stored whenever it is released, its is primarily released during stressful periods in and individual life. Moreover it increases serotonin so emotional eaters can have a safe haven from those gloomy days. Tamarind also great as an appetite suppressant and the lesser caloric intake , then the closer i am to achieving my weight loss goals. The simplest principle of weight loss is eating lesser calories than your body needs so it is forced to use what”s stored for energy Read more: http://crystal-evans.quazen.com/shopping/lose-weight-fast-using-the-holy-grail-of-weight-loss/#ixzz2O5wv7aha Read more: http://crystal-evans.quazen.com/shopping/lose-weight-fast-using-the-holy-grail-of-weight-loss/#ixzz2O5vy2tVd

SOCIAL revolution Coming for Jamaica

What is happening in Jamaica, Land I love... Seems only degradation... sharing Facebook Posts and clips from my ongoing {clamor for my poor Jamaicans crusade) "i am truly hurting for the state of my country and i only see it getting worst. i have no confidence in my government and i don't trust how long my people can endure what is happening in my country, i fear a social revolution with bloodshed is imminent. every young person of intellect wanna leave Jamaica, what is gonna happen here when that happens. smh...we need to act fast..." Crystal Evans "Yes. And where is the intellectual class in all of this...too busy being cerebral narcissists to see further than their little cadre of friends. Where are they to drum up our people in this social revolution and remind politicians that anoo Bay EDiAt live yah...well I guess some ppl won't take this serious till this problem reach their doorsteps. I don't wanna teach my ppl to believe in anyone(politician) but themselves. That is where we gonna start: getting my people, who have come so far from slavery and racism to believe in themselves and that anything can happen. We can build Jamaica if we only believe and work hard unanimously.." Crystal Evans Patrice Townsend "Fact is the poor, middle class are bending bending bending to the song of nationhood while some others laugh at them while drinking wine and eating whole lamb thighs. Until there is a revolution, there will only be a progressing deterioration in the state of affairs in this country" "i pray our government take heed cuz the youths in the west them angry, furious, enraged, they are ready to fight if needs be to protect their ill gotten wealth. they would rather die than go back to poverty. one young man told me that he is doing for his community what his mp aught to be doing and now this man telling him hes gonna send him to prison. most of the financial crimes that are born in Jamaica are conceived from the ills within our society. and until we stop putting a band aid on that gangrenous wound that needs amputation then the whole body ago rot. u see we don't need no medication to mitigate the diseases in our sociopolitical bodies, we need a vaccination programme. i hear ppl saying that they need a young leader now... weed out the old heads, give the young people a chance now.." Crystal Evans " me just tyad a the cussing inna parliament and the blame game. i need a visionary leader, not someone to play on my emotions or illiteracy or my needs. Somebody that makes me wanna get up each morning and work to uplift Jamaica. a profound leader not just some half laced recondite rhetoric...someone to engender unity in my people to bring hope to the young and content to the dying old...i aint gonna lie, i don't see that..." Crystal Evans i for sure know that persons 25years and under in my area and the surroundings wants absolutely nothing to do with politics whether pnp or whatever p. they are just plain disillusioned, disinterested and completely find politicians contemptible. mere sound of anything remotely political angers them. They burst into loud rancorous of expletives and utter hatred of politicians. and believe me understand why. i am disenchanted even now...last elections turn out was minimal, picture what will happen in the next considering the state of things now" Crystal Evans u see some of these politicians need to come off dem high horse and see things from the footman level too much assumption and sociological perspectives. things down a bottom yah are not so textboookeeed Sometimes I won der what kinda world I brought my baby into! Life in Jamdown is rather worthless. Its anarchy at its safest. No one can protect you! Not the police, not the politician and Worst not even your pastor...I believe in visionary leaders...Martin Luther King, Marcus Garvey, ppl who don't just ride with the statusquo. People who when they speak, I am moved to action, not power hungry ingrates. If this is not what these youth organisations stand for then I don't want any part of it. I am too smart to be a puppet. #real talk "Love the work Mr Bunting is doing in repressing and obliterating the transnational fraud scheme. I hope I will see an equal duress in hunting down criminals and gun men who prey on our nations populace. I would also love for America to begin complaining about the state of our economy so that our leaders will act with alacrity to repair it . Force our government to come up with jobs and programmes for the youths" " U see I think and this is my opinion that a detached politician living in a salubrious community can never fully understand what my people are enduring...it shouldn't have to be luck to survive in this country, it should have opportunities. They can only jump. Up and call scammers criminal but where's the attendant "so much opportunities here them no have no need fe scam" can't hear that cuz they know that ppl are just trying to survive n the only reason dem interested is becus us is browbeating dem...are they looking at the rise in domestic violence, suicide, infanticide, spousal killings...we have a nation under stress... "

Buying Cheap Real Estate in Jamaica Today

Jamaican Realtor who can point you in the right direction. A Jamaican Realtor might say to Jamaica real estate seller that he might take a lease-purchase option if his property is proving too difficult to sell. This means that a 12-60 Month lease can be agreed upon where you pay only a monthly amount and at the end of the lease the property will be sold for JMD$1.00.

Some people have qualms about buying underdeveloped properties, that is purchasing property in an area that has minimal or no residency. Underdeveloped Schemes are residential areas that government or private sector individuals marked for development. They are ideal for investment purposes for person who wish to buy these properties for peanuts then flip and sell them for a profit when the area is developed. Take for instance my friend Patrick Fletcher of Negril Estate bought a mountainside area on the outskirts of Negril Town over 24 acres and developed it into Negril Estate and exclusive gated community. Shalleel Hill discovered MAY FIELD falls when it was only a river and bought 6 acres of land for a mere 500,000JMD. today i well developed tourism attraction. What about others who bought lands for 30,000 Jamaican dollars in the year 2000 and their neighbors are paying millions for those properties today. Buy a underdeveloped property where there are no asphalt road, utilities or amenities for PEANUTS NOW and watch your area become developed. Buy a grand acreage for mere dimes and developed it into your own housing scheme and accrue millions from subdivision and lottings. You got to be smart about Real Estate in Jamaica. sixteen acres land holdings is being sold for 4 million JAMAICAN dollars in HanoverA twenty four acres holding that runs through a river and a falls being sold for one million Jamaican. It is ideal for tourism and entertainment development. Jamaica is a great place for Real Estate investment especially buying foreclosure homes. As is outlined on Jamaica Real EsTATE SITE "Regardless of the type of Jamaica real estate investment, the best way to invest is with no money down. This way you use what are called cheap funds to purchase property while the interest rate you pay on the loan is eroded away because of inflationary pressures. The problem in Jamaica is locating no money down Jamaican property deals. These can be very difficult to locate however you can issue these requests to Jamaican reactors who can point you in the right direction. A Jamaican Realtor might say to Jamaica real estate seller that he might take a lease-purchase option if his property is proving too difficult to sell. This means that a 12-60 Month lease can be agreed upon where you pay only a monthly amount and at the end of the lease the property will be sold for JMD$1.00. This is an excellent method to snap up hard to sell Jamaica real estate.

The first thing you should be aware of is looking for deals. Worldwide Realtor will always recommend the use of a Jamaica realtor if buying or selling property. However if you would like to purchase a no money down Jamaica real estate properties, you need to locate Jamaica real estate that is being sold well below the estimated market value."Imagine picking up several properties for pennies on the dollar. The houses maybe obsolete but the value of land never decreases. And you can save some of that money that you would have invested in buying the property into building your actual dream home. You can purchase with equity and assume loan by buying a property that is being sold below 20% OF ITS Market Value. Purchase the property by accessing a 95% financing loan and another closing cost Mortgage. you can also use loan assumptions.Most Real Estate AGENTS do not give you this information. They would rather bilk you as much as they can from sales. It is quite easy to buy cheap property in Jamaica. call Crystal for your real estate , land buying needs or home building you will get the best rates 8767789755

Fat American WOMEN marrying JAMAICAN men

Recently i met this lady who was complaining about why her Jamaican man treasted her like shit! HER MAN TOLD HER IN NO NEVER TO SPEAK TO HIM AT HOME AND SHE WAS LIVING AN EGGSHELL RELATIONSHIP, ONLY THE RING TOLD EVERYONE THEY WERE MARRIED. when i spoke with her husband during my phone counselling session, he admitted that he never loved his wife and only married her as an opportunity to come to America and better his life. He said that his wife sent him over foiur thousand US DOLLARS to woo him, marry him and get his immigration papers. HE ADAMANTLY inferred that he was making his wife's life miserable because she refuses to give him money and have him locked up in her house. HW REFUSES to be "PROGRAMMED" by any woman because his Jamaican WOMAN would never seek to restrict his freedom or tell him what to do. HE CLAIMS that he would rather go home than stay with his wife in AMERICA. some women might read the title and cringed but this is not a weight discrimination article but the weight isuue is definitely apart of the problem. ive met many overweight women whose self esteem are very low and who think that the only way to get a man is to buy him. These same women would spend thousands of dollars on spoiled, unambitious, disrespectful and abusive men than a hundred dollars on one of my counselling sessions. YES WE ALL NEED LOVE AND HAPPINESS but i say this without apologies, if you are going to use your money to get a man reest assure that the only thing he will ever be interested in is your money. YOU CANNOT "MIND" a man when he is in Jamaica and expect hes not going to anticipate the same treatment in America. YOU SPOILED HIM IN THE BEGINING! SOME OF YOU WOMEN ARE CONCIOUSLY AWARE OF WHAT IT IS YOU ARE DOING THEN YOU EMAIL ME AND TELL ME THIS MAN DOES NOT RESPECT YOU> NEWSFLASH! HE DOESNT AND HE PROBABLY NEVER WILL EXCEPT IN 90% OF THE TIMES WHEN I INTERVENE. You must make your man know what it is that you want from the get go! leT him know that you will deport his ass back to JA IF HES MESSES UP. DO NOT THINK FOR A MINUTE HE WILL CHANGE, HE WIL ONLY GET WORSE UNTIL HE LEAVES AND SHACKS UP WITH SOME OTHER FRIEND AND YOU NEVER SEE OR HEAR FROM HIM AGAIN. DONT THINK FOR A MINUTE THAT GIVING HIM MORE MONEY WILL MAKE HIM STICK AROUND, THE MORE DIMES YOU SHELL OUT, THE DEEPER HIS DISRESPECT, CONTEMPT AND DISREGARD FOR YOU GETS. IT IS A COMMON BELIEF HERE THAT AMERICAN FAT WOMEN HAVE LOW SELF ESTEEM, MONEY AND ARE IN DESPERATE NEED FOR A MAN. Many men enter relationships on this premise. This notion needs to be corrected! ITS THE ROOT OF YOUR PROBLEMS. I CAN HELP YOU WITH THAT! INBOX ME YOUR DETAILS. BE PREPARED TO BE WOWED!